Just because you woke up today, signifies purpose.  It's a typical response to; " How are you today ?".  But if you think about its true.  God didn't make no mistake when he brought you to this earth and live under his reign.  Each day gives you and opportunity to fix what is wrong, get better if you are sick, help someone in need or just be a better you.  Greet your day with love, hope, and dreams.  When you are living for purpose and come to know who you are, the choice is easy.  Always choose you at the head of major decisions and know when to step outside of yourself for clarity.  It doesn't make you selfish, unless its ALWAYS about you.  I learned long time ago that if I don't take care of my mental, I can't take care of my physical.  If those things are shot, then how can I take care of anyone else?  

I don't know about you, but this was an eye opener for me.  So I say to you get excited about the possiblities that are thrown you way.  If it goes bad, maybe its in Gods plan for your path.  Don't allow the bad stuff to effect the good stuff.  When you learn your purpose as we all do at different times in our lives, move forward in it.  Everyone won't understand the greatness in which you are headed.  It's time to take control and celebrate.  When you see where you are, look back on where you have come from.  It's called elevation.  If things are the same as they were in the past, then its time to try something new.  Again, life is based on possibilities.  That's why we should get excited about the opportunity to GROW.  Nothing is placed on you that you can't handle, it's your mental space and energy that gets you to the next phase of your life.  We are spiritual beings living a human XXperience.  You are no mistake, "YOU ARE A CELEBRATION OF LIFE & PURPOSE" .  We invite you to get XXposed & "B.E" (beauty especially) by XXposurhair.  A place of inspiration, love, healing, etiquette, etc.  XXpose the Inner you. 

 

Toxic Relationships

No more Toxic Relationships.

To some degree we all want a healthy relationship, but we tend to get into TOXIC relationships.  Interesting enough, I just recently had an opportunity to identify with someone who was in a TOXIC relationship. 

• But the bigger question is why is it toxic ?  
• Where does it stimulate from ?  
• How do you know ? 
•  Is there a pattern to having or building toxic relationships ?

Sometimes we XXperience TOXIC relationships in our family and therefore we transfer that energy to our  intimate relationships.  It's actually true.  The odd part is that it's not easily detected.  If you were raised to have TOXIC relationship then its harder to acknowledge the turmoil or the difficulty in getting along with your mate.  When people see that type of interaction, it raises a brow. The reason it does, is because it shows difficulty. 
Here's the thing with that:  IF you want to get better, then evaluate yourself and pray on it.  Rest in faith and allow god to do his work through the Universe.  Channel that energy to work in your favor.  The decision will always be up to you.  Some people do well in a toxic relationship and most don't.  It takes a strong person to see themselves and accept who they are and make the necessary changes for a healthier life.  If you often see yourself getting angry, pinpointing flaws, contradicting yourself, accepting things you strongly disagree with, then it's time to make a chnge.  Those are some of the signs, and now it time for the better.   We all want some peace somehow.  Not all of us know how to let go of the bad stuff in our lives.  But, if we really want a sound mind and healthier relationships we must learn to release & heal.  Toxic relationships can be build chaos and harm to the heart or life.  Come out of your emotions to  see and accept reality.   So that you can think clearly.   You have the ability to control you, not others.  Let go of the toxins and embrace the breathe of fresh air to make better decisions.   You've just been XXposed to "BE" (beauty especially) by XXposurhair.

Etiquette

How a lady carries herself " THE DO's and DON'Ts"  

• Ladies if you are African-American woman or Dark complextion it is NOT right to wear white undergarments under lite or white clothing.  The suggested color to wear under white or light color clothing is black or nude.  No one needs to see what size your undergarments are, that is of personal matter.
• Ladies if you are of Light skin or caucasion complexion do not wear black under white clothing,  Its only fair to excercise proper clothing etiquette.  The suggested color to wear under light or white clothing is white, nude, or neutral under garments.  It's proper to wear undergarments that do not show completely against your garment of choice.
• If YOU WEAR BLACK, PLEASE DO NOT wear white or very light underwear under lightweighted , majority spandex,or majority lycra.  These materials stretch and reveal more to the eye, especially those well endowed/ bottom heavy.

IF YOU ARE A WOMAN WHO LIKES LYCRA, does Lycra like you ? 

 Here's how you can tell:

• When you can see your skin glisten against the material, please be sure to wear something to cover your rear-end.  You are blessed and it an be intimidating, but I envy yall honey.  But lets be a little more aware of how we wear our clothes and How we want people to see us.
• If you are a plus size woman Lycra can be a bit embarrassing when wearing the wrong leggings, not jeggings.  Leggings should be worn under clothing that falls below the line, giving room to bend without embarrassment nor disrespect.  

DO YOU KNOW HOW TO SIT PROPERLY w/ a Dress on ?

• When sitting down slide your arm/hand slight from the back of the thigh down to cover what you will be sitting on.
• If you are wearing a form fitted dress, a little curve/tilt in the leg area will give you more comfort.
• If you are wearing a beaded dress/ gown, I suggest don't sit.  If you choose to sit, find a chair that hair fabric seating that does not stick to the beaded garment of choice.

LOW-RISE shouldn' t be worn if:

• You are beautifully endowed/ bottom heavy
• If you are uniquely shaped & it doesn't compliment you
• If you are going to spend the day pulling up your pants
• If you have a fluffy or heavy mid-section, it will enhance it
• If you are insecure of your body
• 

Listen when you see clothing that is our of order, say something.  It doesn't have to be rude. I't's all about presentation.  How we present it can be positive and negative.  If we are going to give constructive criticism then why not do it in a positive way.  No one wants to feel worse about themselves than what he/she already does.   Take a moment and listen to some of your friends and how they talk about themselves and the things they want to correct.  Listen hard enough,  they may be worse on themselves than others, real talk.  The thing is, you would never think such.  

Let's help each other present each other in a great way.  Get XXposed Tell'em you rep "B.E" (beauty especially ) by XXposurhair.com .  

Hair Gossip | How To Wear Commercial Hair

Ladies and Gents, when wearing commercial hair, it should look natural.  I see so many people wanting to hang with the JONES', like really.  Okay so here is a tip:

• Your tracks or bond should not show
• Your color should match the extensions or blend 
• Purchase hair that matches your texture, not what you wish you had
• Cleanse the hair as if it were you own, weekly, not once (1) a month
• Purchase quality hair whether it's imported or or pre-packaged
• Choose hair colors that compliment your skin, not colors you wished you could wear
• Choose a length of hair you can easily care for, not just keeping up with the Kardashians
• Make sure you seek a professional for proper installation of commercial hair
• Be sure to protect your edges, since they are fragile

It's time someone says something. We can't keep allowing our sisters and brothers to wear horrible hair or look untamed.  Someone has to educate you on how to look and they should educate you on wearing extensions. Get XXposed to "B.E", we ca't talk about something and not offer solution, It's all about elevation and motivation.  We invite you to get XXposed by xxposurhair.com

Hair Etiquette | Hair Gossip

HAIRGOSSIP,

Let's talk hair, Healthy hair, Commercial hair, Damaged hair, Natural hair, Locs, etc  .Hair has so many forms, but let's start with " HAIR ETIQUETTE":

PROPER SHAMPOOING:

• Do you know how to shampoo your hair ?
• How often should I shampoo my hair ?
• What type of shampoo should you use ? 
• Is your hair oily, dry, damaged, normal, or combination ?
• Are you allergic to sulfur? 
• What type of conditioner do I use?
• How should my hair feel ? 
• Do you drink enough water ?

These are just a few questions to think about when taming your hair.

But here's the answer: Shampoo hair daily if you are caucasion w/ oily hair, ethnic is every 3 to 5 days based on the oil build-up in the hair. Don't purchase shampoos due to the smell, choose your shampoo according to the texture and scalp.  Many products have sulfur in them, so be sure to read the label and know the names for sulfur in case of allergic reaction. Choose the conditioner on the same product line as your shampoo choice.  After cleansing and conditioning the hair,, it should feel softer and detangle easy, if not I suggest your XXperienced stylist to clip those ends.  Stay tuned, because this hair thing has so many avenues.


B.E ( Beauty Especially )
by xxposurhair