Change the ENERGY.

Today people are so ANGRY.  It's actually very sad.  When you stand outside of yourself or your environment, you will see it unless you are apart of the growing tribe of angry.  I encourage people to smile more.  Lately, I've seen alot of angry people. I recently went out of town and went to a restaurant with my family.  The server wasn't very polite.  Come to find out she wasn't suppose to be outside for long, being as though she is asthmatic.  When she spoke of her irritation, I said thank you for sharing that.  Still she was the server and I decided not to let her irritation effect me.  She didn't change much, but I chose to not entertain the ugly and give it some beauty.  What I learn daily is that people will try to steal your joy or if they are miserable they want you to be on their level.  I choose to bring others to the light and radiate positive energy.  Another situation I encountered was over the phone.  I placed a call, and greeted the rep with appreciation and her response was nasty.  If you knew me, you would know it raised a brow.  I could not give her the ugly that she gave me so I remained appreciative and kind.  When I tell you this chick had to have been having an ugly moment, but who knows.  However, I got what I needed and couldn't even feed into how rude she was, so I stayed in control of me.   In all things its what we allow to happen, Don't allow a dark cloud to put a cast on your SUNSHINE.  It's the smiles and the kind words along with encouragement that will grown happier people. " Even in an ugly situation, a flower can still blossom if you give it the right kind of love and water".  
 If you in the process of healing, spreading love, encouraging others, loving, etc, we know you know how to "B.E" (beauty especially) amazing.  We XXpose your greatness by XXposurhair

GET EXCITED !!!!

Just because you woke up today, signifies purpose.  It's a typical response to; " How are you today ?".  But if you think about its true.  God didn't make no mistake when he brought you to this earth and live under his reign.  Each day gives you and opportunity to fix what is wrong, get better if you are sick, help someone in need or just be a better you.  Greet your day with love, hope, and dreams.  When you are living for purpose and come to know who you are, the choice is easy.  Always choose you at the head of major decisions and know when to step outside of yourself for clarity.  It doesn't make you selfish, unless its ALWAYS about you.  I learned long time ago that if I don't take care of my mental, I can't take care of my physical.  If those things are shot, then how can I take care of anyone else?  

I don't know about you, but this was an eye opener for me.  So I say to you get excited about the possiblities that are thrown you way.  If it goes bad, maybe its in Gods plan for your path.  Don't allow the bad stuff to effect the good stuff.  When you learn your purpose as we all do at different times in our lives, move forward in it.  Everyone won't understand the greatness in which you are headed.  It's time to take control and celebrate.  When you see where you are, look back on where you have come from.  It's called elevation.  If things are the same as they were in the past, then its time to try something new.  Again, life is based on possibilities.  That's why we should get excited about the opportunity to GROW.  Nothing is placed on you that you can't handle, it's your mental space and energy that gets you to the next phase of your life.  We are spiritual beings living a human XXperience.  You are no mistake, "YOU ARE A CELEBRATION OF LIFE & PURPOSE" .  We invite you to get XXposed & "B.E" (beauty especially) by XXposurhair.  A place of inspiration, love, healing, etiquette, etc.  XXpose the Inner you. 

 

Toxic Relationships

No more Toxic Relationships.

To some degree we all want a healthy relationship, but we tend to get into TOXIC relationships.  Interesting enough, I just recently had an opportunity to identify with someone who was in a TOXIC relationship. 

• But the bigger question is why is it toxic ?  
• Where does it stimulate from ?  
• How do you know ? 
•  Is there a pattern to having or building toxic relationships ?

Sometimes we XXperience TOXIC relationships in our family and therefore we transfer that energy to our  intimate relationships.  It's actually true.  The odd part is that it's not easily detected.  If you were raised to have TOXIC relationship then its harder to acknowledge the turmoil or the difficulty in getting along with your mate.  When people see that type of interaction, it raises a brow. The reason it does, is because it shows difficulty. 
Here's the thing with that:  IF you want to get better, then evaluate yourself and pray on it.  Rest in faith and allow god to do his work through the Universe.  Channel that energy to work in your favor.  The decision will always be up to you.  Some people do well in a toxic relationship and most don't.  It takes a strong person to see themselves and accept who they are and make the necessary changes for a healthier life.  If you often see yourself getting angry, pinpointing flaws, contradicting yourself, accepting things you strongly disagree with, then it's time to make a chnge.  Those are some of the signs, and now it time for the better.   We all want some peace somehow.  Not all of us know how to let go of the bad stuff in our lives.  But, if we really want a sound mind and healthier relationships we must learn to release & heal.  Toxic relationships can be build chaos and harm to the heart or life.  Come out of your emotions to  see and accept reality.   So that you can think clearly.   You have the ability to control you, not others.  Let go of the toxins and embrace the breathe of fresh air to make better decisions.   You've just been XXposed to "BE" (beauty especially) by XXposurhair.

WHY ARE YOU SO ANGRY?

It's something to think about if that is you or someone you know that is, angry.

•  Do you know where the anger comes from ? 
•  Do/Did you see it in yourself ? or was it others that saw/see the change ? 
•  Are you alone a lot ?  Do you enjoy people or do they enjoy you ?  
• When will you let go ?  
• Is being angry solving anything?

Here's a suggestion as to how to identify with the problem.  First, gain a peace of mind.  You may ask, how do I do that ?  Well think about how much time you have given that negative energy and then think about how much time you are willing to give the positive energy .  You have to know that you are important.  You have to love you and it will teach others how to love you.  Being angry doesn't solve anything most of the time, if not all the time.  It can fuel things in a positive way or it can add to the frustration and create emotionally unhealthy decisions.  See the negative is already an option, so feed into the positive,  It, too is an option.  You miss your blessings when you are so angry then ask god, why didn't you help me?  When he placed the help in your face, while kicking misery away.  Pay attention when you ask for something.  Rest in faith if you believe.  If your life is too cluttered, I suggest you clean out your closet, because everything can't fit if you don't make room.  This is a great way to start healing from your anger and move forward.  Remember, the past already happened.  You can't change it, but you have the power to make the present and future  better.  You are worthy of greatness and it begins with peace.  Focus on that, and the rest will come. We invite you to get XXposed to "B.E" (beauty especially )  and live peacefully by XXposurhair.